Thank you for the link to the article. It was beautifully written and useful advice (and basically how my husband and I made the same decision ie. imagining ourselves as very old). I think the keyword in the article is 'irrevocable'. There are plenty of choices we have to make, but it is the seemingly irrevocable that are 'intractable'.
Thank you for the link to the article. It was beautifully written and useful advice (and basically how my husband and I made the same decision ie. imagining ourselves as very old). I think the keyword in the article is 'irrevocable'. There are plenty of choices we have to make, but it is the seemingly irrevocable that are 'intractable'.
Yes! I try to remind myself that irrevocability is what makes decisions meaningful. If we had endless do-overs, no choice would matter :)